Redeeming Sex is a book that will transform the conversations in the evangelical world and beyond about sexuality and how we can embrace and love one another wherever we are on our journey toward redemption. Seriously– This book is a game changer, and I love it.
Deb’s thoughtful insight, impeccable research and theological perspectives on human sexuality are so right on, and resonate so deeply with everything in my soul, I know I will use this book as a reference for years to come to guide and help others in love and grace who have been so wounded by well meaning “Church” people, trying to make everyone look alike, think alike, and act alike.
So much irrevocable damage has been done in the name of Christ to anyone who does not fit the “Normal” paradigm of sexuality (whatever that is). Redeeming Sex sends a message loud and clear that there is no one, not one person who does not bear the image on God brightly on their soul. I think this book will give us all a greater understanding of ourselves and each other as we move forward into a more Jesus loving, Jesus believing, Jesus acting kind of people.
I am excited for pretty much all of humanity to read Deb’s book.
Just for fun…here are the 131 books I have read from January 2012 until February 2013. I keep track of all my reading through Goodreads.com, and have taken part in the Goodreads book challenge for the past few years, which means that at the beginning of each year, you can set a reading goal for yourself and keep track of all your reading there.
You can click on each image to see how I rated the book and if it’s worth your time to read! I’d love to give you any recomendations if that is helpful. Happy reading!
I read 100 books last year. 110 or so really, but I did not finish about 10 of them because they were just that awful, so I won’t count them here. I read about 120 books in 2011. One of the most frequently asked questions I get is, “How do you find all that time to read?” I’ve been called lazy and that’s why I read. Inferences of others imply that I have a lavish life, that’s why I have time to read. I’ve also had people ask me if I do anything that matters other than read. All very interesting, loaded questions that I won’t answer here. But, I will tell you how I do find the time. Here goes.
I hate television. I never watch TV, ever. Unless it’s the Today Show while kids are getting ready for school in the morning and I sit on the couch in between getting lunches made, signing papers, Stuffing random gloves in backpacks, etc.
I loathe cooking. I don’t enjoy it–like, at all. I DO cook for my family on a daily basis, but I keep the cooking and baking time to the bare minimum.
I’m not in a crafty phase. I do enjoy scrapbooking, but crafty time is not how I spend my spare time right now.
I listen to books in the car. For whatever reason, I cannot listen to fiction books in the car because my imagination wanders too much. But, non-fiction books are easy for me to listen to, even while I’m grocery shopping. I just bring my headphones and stuff my Kindle in my purse and I am instantly transported into a place in my head where I am really not grocery shopping, but learning something as I am doing the dreaded task of grocery shopping. (I know, I don’t like to cook OR grocery shop. I am sure there is something wrong with me).
I love to read.
I have a passion to read.
I cannot stop reading.
I want to learn all I can from books that I cannot learn from what is my here and now. I want to learn from other’s stories. How they have handled obstacles, how they survived overwhelming odds, what their lives looked like along the way. I never want to stop learning from others.
I want my spectrum to be broad. Living in the same culture for twenty years now, I never want to forget that there is a “rest of the world” that does not live like me or think like me.
Reading makes me a better writer. When I begin to write about a topic, often I hear the voices of other writers inside my head (I know this is not normal either. 🙂 ) These writers urge me to paint a story with words I would never normally choose.
Reading will always be a part of my life until the day I die. I find time to read because I love to read. People will spend time doing what they love, and I love books!
I have a goal again this year of reading 100 books. Last year I really surprised myself by exceeding my goal of 100 by 10 or 15 books. I’ve read 78 as of today. I thought I would share a few of my recent favorites here. I’d love to hear what you’re loving to read and why!
This book is not only about Hemingway in Africa, but a piece of art in biography form. The photos throughout the book are stunning, engaging and tell their own story of life in East Africa. I spent a summer in Uganda and Kenya, walked on some of the same places mentioned in the book…surprisingly, I have a photo of myself taken at Murchison Falls on the Nile River, unknowing at the time that Hemingway’s plane crashed there.
The life Hemingway lived on his first trip to Africa was so different from his second. I love how this book compares and contrasts his two visits, along with the author’s own observation about a land that gets in your heart and changes you from the inside out.
This biography is more than a story, more than art, it is also incredibly inspirational to me as a writer. I’ve never thought about hunting and writing along the same lines, but these thoughts will have me thinking for a long time.
What an incredibly well-written, easily believable story about a young girl “trying to figure out how to live”. Margo is a lost soul, makes mistakes, learns from them and forges a life for herself out of sheer determination and will. I loved this story, and it got me to thinking about “What’s my river?” The river calmed Margo. The river was the one sure thing in her life, and she knew it. It’s not too often that I walk away from a novel asking myself deep questions about my own life, but this one left me pondering. It was a really great read.
I love this memoir so much I could not put it down. Deborah Feldman’s journey from the prison of other people’s ideas for her life to freedom is truly inspirational. I knew nothing of the Hasidic community before I read this book, so it was intriguing, yet heartbreaking to think how many girls and women are trapped by traditions that leave them powerless to do anything to improve their circumstances or protect their children from rigid law that demoralizes them.
I am proud of Deborah for taking a stand and leaving literally every comfort of home to rebuild a life for her and her son. If we all had her strength, we could make this world a much better place.
Rob and I visited The Potter’s Inn in Divide, Colorado this past June. We met some fabulous friends there, Steve and Gwen Smith. Steve gave us this workbook to work with after our Soul Care Intensive week with them. Guess what? I’m still not done! For my over-reading, over-achieving, people-pleasing self, this is stressful! But the reasons I am not yet finished are because of the intensity of the material and the in-depth questions. I’ve never been through a Bible study that examined my soul quite like this one.
Want a copy? I’d say you need it if you want to take a few steps for caring for your own soul. No one else can do that but YOU! You can order your copy here
I’ve been talking lots about my 100 books read this year. As of today, my Goodreads.com page says I’m at 110 books, but who’s counting? The question I have gotten the most is: How in the world do you find time to read? The question is a good one, relavant, but always makes me scratch my head in wonder. My question back is usually, “How do you find time NOT to read?” I honestly can’t imagine not reading, so it is perplexing to me. With so many free books available through the library, Kindle, e-readers, etc., reading has become more available than any time in history. I’d say 70% of the books on my list were either from the library, free on Kindle, or less than $5.
With all of that said, here are some things I do to fit reading around my day . my day around reading.
After all three girlies are on the bus, I sit with a cup of coffee and read before I start my daily activities.
I carry my Kindle with me in my purse so I can choose the “text to voice” option through my van radio.
I wear headphones while shopping so I can listen to a book. This has made the whole shopping process a whole lot more fun. I hate shopping.
I take a little bit after lunch and before Belle gets off the bus to read.
If the book is really interesting, I literally carry it around the house with me and read a few paragraphs as I’m emptying the dishwasher, folding laundry, or vacuuming. Yes, this is all possible. 🙂
I read before bed.
That’s it. Reading is super important to me, so I make it happen. Does that answer the question?